My Mom, when she learned that she was going to die, wrote a list titled "I Remember When." I want to do the same for her, although she is not her to read it. I cried at some, but I also learned some new information. Like that Clair and I wandered off one day and got lost. Boy, my Mom must have freaked out!
I remember when...my Mom came to visit me for Thanksgiving, after not being together for over 20 years.
I remember when...my Mom sat down on one of our coolers on the patio before I could tell her to be careful as it would fall over. She fell on her ass. *giggle* After trying to see if she was okay (she was), I couldn't stop laughing. I think most of us siblings are like that, laugh in the face of pain.
I remember when...I surprised my Mom by knowing how to make gravy.
I remember when...I came to Michigan (on several occasions) to surprise my Mom.
I remember when...came out to watch all of us play soccer, although not together.
I remember when...my Mom (and all my sibs) came out for Shawna's graduation. What a time that was. There were 10 of us in my 2 bedroom town home, but it never seemed crowded.
I remember when...my Mom taught me to crochet, around Halloween, when I flew out to IL to spend the weekend with family.
I remember when...I came out for Mother's Day (as a surprise) and went lilacing.
I remember when...my Mom and I went Black Friday shopping.
I remember when...my Mom and I planted my "circle" garden. It's taken apart at the moment, but when I have use of my hands, will be set up again.
I remember when...my Mom canned tomatoes and let me have hot, cooked tomatoes over buttered bread.
I will add more to this blog as I think of more...
Love and miss you Mom. Until next time...
xoxo,
Nay
Hey Renee! Oh man, I haven't read blogs in maybe a year...really dropped off the planet there! But I've been adding some things to mine today (from March and April--just a little behind), and saw you on my sidebar and wondered how you've been. What a great idea to write down your memories! Even though your mom won't see them, this blog can be a good read for your kids (and you!) I am glad to hear your surgery went well and you are recovering. Good luck with school and your hands and having a senior again! Love ya!
ReplyDeleteRenee, aren't memories wonderful and sometimes sad at the same time. Your Mom was the best Mom.
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